Moving ... again.

Yes, you read that right. We are in the process of moving again. But we are not moving back to Rochester ... sorry. We are moving into another apt. in a neighboring building in the same apt. complex.
It's a long story, so here it goes:
We realized that we needed to begin thinking about schools for Lydia. Thinking that Lydia would have to attend the public school in the district we lived in, we began a search to find a future apt. in a 'good' school district. Our plan was to move into another apt. in October, when our lease at Parkway Manor ended.
So, we began researching schools and places that we might like to live. Then, we discovered another way the Nevada is unlike New York. In NY, kids have to attend the school of the school district they live in. In NV, kids will generally go to their district schools; however, they can get on a waiting list to attend another school. Therefore, districts are important, just not as important.
Meanwhile, we discovered that Jackson is a light sleeper at naptime. During the night, he sleeps very well, but during naptime, if Lydia makes the slightest noise, he wakes up crying. So for the past week, we have struggled with this naptime situation. We concluded that in the future, we would like to have 3-bedrooms, if we could afford it.
Okay, so that was the main background to our moving tale. Here's the rest:
Yesterday morning, Lennon stopped by the office to see if we could look at a 3-bedroom apt. sometime. We figured that way we view the apt & see if it was even a possibility for the future.
Well, the leasing agent told Lennon that they were having a special on rents, and that we could rent a 3-bedroom/2-bathroom apt. for just about what we were currently paying for a 2-bedroom/2-bathroom apt. Wow!
So, yesterday afternoon, we toured a few 3-bedrooms, and after looking at our finances, we decided to extend our lease, and move into the new apt.
Today, we signed the lease, and began moving our stuff (37 trips - down 1 flight of stairs, and up 3 flights = 1 trip). Tonight will be the 1st night in our new apt.
Though we will be doing a video tour of our home & mailing it to family & some friends, if you want to get a feel for our new place, go to www.parkwaymanor.net, and click on the 3-bedroom floor plan.
Let me tell you a bit about our new home:
It is on the 3rd floor, the very large balcony is accessible through our sliding glass door, and it overlooks Roop Street, with gorgeous view of the Sierra Nevada mtn. range. Each of the 2 bathrooms has a small linen closet attached - yay for storage! There's a coat closet by the front door. I have a pantry off of my kitchen!!! The living room boasts a built-in bookshelf and a gas fireplace in the corner. Though the apt. has an open-concept floorplan, it is set up in such a way that it feels like there are separate rooms. I feel like we can have friends over and not feel like everyone is on top of each other.
We love our new home, and we can't wait to show you via video soon!

Bedtime at the Fediw household

Just wanted to share a few pics of the cute kids getting ready for bed. Lydia likes to brush her own teeth with her 'Big Girl' toothpaste - the Aquafresh pump kind that I had as a kid.
Jackson likes to coo at the baby in the bathroom mirror. (In the 3rd picture, Jackson is trying to decide whether to play with the coveted Tigger chair or with his dancing feet. Very tough decision!)
And before going to sleep, they like to cuddle together, though it's usually in Lydia's bed.
Night-night sweet kiddos!

The Case of the Stolen Popcorn

Lennon gave Lydia a little bit of popcorn as a appetizer to lunch (to keep her hungriness at bay). Then, Lennon lay down on the couch to relax, while lunch cooked.
After ten minutes, he realized that Lydia was still commenting about how delicious her popcorn was. (Now I know she can be a slow eater sometimes, but this is popcorn!)
Lennon listened for a minute, and then heard Lydia get up from her table in the kitchen, and pitter-patter her way over to the counter where the popcorn bowl was.
He called to her, "Lydia, what are you doing?" Her response - "I dunno?" Lennon discovered that she had been sneakily stealing from the popcorn bowl for the last 10 minutes.

Ooh, Lydia was not happy that she had been found out. (We thought it was hysterical, but of course, we couldn't let her know that!)

The Familiar Memories of the Past Meet the New 'Normal' of the Present

So, today, I had the weird deja vu experience of having memories of the past interrupt the new normalcy of this life. We were driving along in our car, and as I looked out the windshield, I saw "Carson City Courthouse" written on the side of a brick building. Then, it hit me - we live in Carson City, Nevada. But we still have some stuff & memories from Rochester, New York. It was a collision of two parts of our lives - the old (our car from Rochester) meeting the new (Carson City).

Now, I know that we have lived here for ... almost 4 months now, but things still 'hit me' in waves. It's becoming normal to live here. We pretty much know our way around. We've found the best grocery stores, although nothing compares to Wegman's. (Sidenote: whenever we go back to NY for a visit, I am going to Wegman's every day, just to look around & to be in Weg's!) We have doctors, and a pharmacy; we have a great church, where we are connected. We are making friends and doing playdates, etc.

But I am still having a bit of a difficult time embracing Carson City as my home city now. I'm not exactly sure why, but here are some of my thoughts:
* This is the first place to which I have moved. (45 minutes away, to Lima, doesn't really count.) A person tends to compare (even subconsciously) the new place with the familiar, old place.
* It's different here. I like the sagebrush, and being able to see for miles and miles. I LOVE the mtns. So, the landscape is a plus.
* The city is quite small for a state capital; in fact, I believe, it is much smaller than Rochester.
* Carson City is located in a valley, which means that the layout of the city runs north-south along the valley floor, since buildings can only be built up so far into the side of the mtns. That being said, everything is very spread out (north-to-south). Since we live on the very north end of the city, it seems like a long trip to the south end where most of the new stores are.
* There doesn't seem like there is much to do here - skiing (at Lake Tahoe), off-roading, and lots of gambling. And that is probably why we feel a restless/lack-of-hope/lack-of-interest spirit in the spiritual air over Carson City.
* We aren't quite sure why we are here in CC. We feel that God led us here b/c of Lennon's job, but other than that, we aren't sure what we are to be doing here.
* We only have one car, which makes it difficult for the kids and I to do things out-and-about or with other families, when Lennon is at work.
* We moved here right before winter time.
* Before we moved, I had always worked at least 1-2 days each week outside of the home. So, I wasn't a full-time SAHM (stay-at-home-mom) until we moved here. It's a bit different than I thought, though I am adjusted to it now.
* I'm learning how to take time for myself, to do something that I like to do; that I am important as a person, not just as a wife, mom, homemaker, etc.
* We moved. Across the country. Away from family. Away from friends. With a new baby & a pre-schooler. We're crazy!

I think that's about it. I know we'll get involved in our church and possibly in our community, but we don't want to just rush into something w/o knowing it is the right thing for us to be doing at this time.

Thanks for letting me ramble and get my thoughts out into the air. My brain feels a little less cluttered now.